Папа! Поужинай с нами вместе!

Автор: Николай Гижицкий Опубликовано: 13.02.2016 Рубрика: Жизнь   Просмотров: 3 036 |

Вдохновитель на статьюНаталья Гегер

Привет, друг!

Вы наверное уже обратили внимание на название этой записи: Папа! Поужинай с нами вместе! Пожалуйста!

Я уже не помню, откуда у меня на жестком диске появилась статья, которую я разместил ниже. Не сохранилось ссылки на источник, но я решил опубликовать ее на блоге, так как меня она заставила в свое время задуматься. Думаю, будет полезной и Вам.

Итак:

Как-то раз один человек вернулся поздно домой с работы, как всегда усталый и задёрганный, и увидел, что в дверях его ждёт пятилетний сын.
— Папа, можно у тебя кое-что спросить?
— Конечно, что случилось?
— Пап, а сколько ты получаешь?
— Это не твоё дело! — возмутился отец. — И потом, зачем это тебе?
— Просто хочу знать. Пожалуйста, ну скажи, сколько ты получаешь в час?
— Ну, вообще-то, 500. А что?
— Пап, — сын посмотрел на него снизу вверх очень серьёзными глазами. — Пап, ты можешь занять мне 300?

— Ты спрашивал только для того, чтобы я тебе дал денег на какую-нибудь дурацкую игрушку? — закричал тот. — Немедленно марш к себе в комнату и ложись спать!… Нельзя же быть таким эгоистом! Я работаю целый день, страшно устаю, а ты себя так глупо ведешь.

Малыш тихо ушёл к себе в комнату и закрыл за собой дверь. А его отец продолжал стоять в дверях и злиться на просьбу сына. Да как он смеет спрашивать меня о зарплате, чтобы потом попросить денег? Но спустя какое-то время он успокоился и начал рассуждать здраво: Может, ему действительно что-то очень важное нужно купить. Да чёрт с ними, с тремя сотнями, он ведь ещё вообще ни разу у меня не просил денег . Когда он вошёл в детскую, его сын уже был в постели.

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— Ты не спишь, сынок? — спросил он.
— Нет, папа. Просто лежу, — ответил мальчик.
— Я, кажется, слишком грубо тебе ответил, — сказал отец. — У меня был тяжелый день, и я просто сорвался. Прости меня. Вот, держи деньги, которые ты просил.

Мальчик сел в кровати и улыбнулся.
— Ой, папка, спасибо! — радостно воскликнул он.
Затем он залез под подушку и достал еще несколько смятых банкнот. Его отец,увидев, что у ребенка уже есть деньги, опять разозлился. А малыш сложил все деньги вместе, и тщательно пересчитал купюры, и затем снова посмотрел на отца.
— Зачем ты просил денег, если они у тебя уже есть? — проворчал тот.
— Потому что у меня было недостаточно. Но теперь мне как раз хватит, — ответил ребенок.
— Папа, здесь ровно пятьсот. Можно я куплю один час твоего времени? Пожалуйста, приди завтра с работы пораньше, я хочу чтобы ты поужинал вместе с нами.

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Морали нет. Просто хотелось напомнить, что наша жизнь слишком коротка, чтобы проводить её целиком на работе. Мы не должны позволять ей утекать сквозь пальцы, и не уделять хотя бы крохотную её дольку тем, кто действительно нас любит, самым близким нашим людям. Если нас завтра не станет, наша компания очень быстро заменит нас кем-то другим. И только для семьи и друзей это будет действительно большая потеря, о которой они будут помнить всю свою жизнь. Подумай об этом, ведь мы уделяем работе гораздо больше времени, чем семье.

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  • Очень классная статья..тронуло до слез!
    О многом заставляет задуматься!

  • С интересом прочла небольшой рассказ-диалог отца с сыном. После его прочтения многим родителям стоит задуматься, достаточно ли времени они уделяют своему любимому ребенку, не страдает ли их чадо от недостатка родительского внимания, «кто виноват?» и «что делать?» Главное помнить, что семья – это самое важное в жизни любого человека, а дети – это наше будущее и именно ради них мы просто обязаны просыпаться каждое утро и показывать им правильный наглядный пример. Хочется,чтобы у всех семья и дети стояли на первом месте,а всё остальное — на последующих. Уделяйте больше внимания своим родным и близким,ведь жизнь действительно не так длинна,и в какой-то момент кого-то из близких может и не стать…а это большая потеря,её не восполнить ничем.Останется лишь локти кусать и сожалеть о том,что мало времени оставалось для общения.Будьте внимательны друг к другу. Спасибо,Коля,за поднятую очень важную тему!

  • Сергей:

    Сильная статья, Николай! Когда-то, я уже где-то читал. Но вот кто автор, сказать не могу. Успехов в развитии сайта. Сергей.

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